Being a former Police Officer and FBI Agent, I know there are always two sides to every story. During my years as a private investigator, I have seen our investigators catch several men and women cheating on Valentine’s Day. We all know Valentine’s Day as a special day to exchange flowers, and candy with those we love. As a result, we always see a dramatic increase in infidelity cases near Valentine’s Day.
Unlike the TV show, our investigations do not dramatize infidelity in a relationship. Our investigations are focused on the truth however good or bad it maybe. When clients call our office they always say they would never forgive their spouse for infidelity. Oftentimes our infidelity investigations provide clients with the peace of mind they need to rebuild there relationship. One of the worst fears for anyone in a relationship is the possibility of infidelity from a mate.
How can you tell when your mate maybe unfaithful?
TIPS: Listed below are common warning signs that could indicate a problem in any relationship. Excessive Phone Calls and Computer Time
Having a Need for Privacy
Having a Renewed Attention to Appearance
Working a Lot of Late Hours
Changes in the Relationship
No longer wearing a wedding ring
Excessive Text messages Saying “It is all your imagination”
Again, it is important to emphasize that suspicion is not proof. Any of these examples could be completely normal behavior. This is why the added information provided from an infidelity investigation specialist could confirm your suspicions.
Infidelity Does not Mean Divorce.
I have seen first hand that our infidelity investigations can bring a situation into the open potentially allowing couples to deal with the issues in the relationship. Sometimes our investigations reveal fundamental problems in the relationship that can not be overcome. Other times, counseling can help repair the relationship. I don’t view our infidelity investigations as the end of a relationship. I believe that if you keep ignoring the problems in a relationship the problems will only get worse. If infidelity is confirmed and confronted, you may be able to save your relationship and have many happy years together.